Monday, July 27, 2009

LAUGHTER !! :-D

If you really want to laugh you will have to learn how to weep. If you cannot weep and if you are not capable of tears, you will become incapable of laughter. A man of laughter is also a man of tears -- then a man is balanced. A man of bliss is also a man of silence. A man who is ecstatic is also a man who is centered. They both go together. And out of this togetherness of polarities a balanced being is born. And that is what the goal is.
LAUGHTER is the very essence of religion. Seriousness is never religious, cannot be religious. Seriousness is of the ego, part of the very disease. Laughter is egolessness. Yes, there is a difference between when you laugh and when a religious man laughs. The difference is that you laugh always about others -- the religious man laughs at himself, or at the whole ridiculousness of man's being.
Laughter brings some energy from your inner source to your surface. Energy starts flowing, follows laughter like a shadow. Have you watched it? When you really laugh, for those few moments you are in a deep meditative state. Thinking stops. It is impossible to laugh and think together. They are diametrically opposite: either you can laugh or you can think. If you really laugh, thinking stops. If you are still thinking, laughter will be just so-so, it will be just so-so, lagging behind. It will be a crippled laughter.When you really laugh, suddenly mind disappears. And the whole Zen methodology is how to get into no-mind -- laughter is one of the beautiful doors to get to it.As far as I know, dancing and laughter are the best, natural, easily approachable doors. If you really dance, thinking stops. You go on and on, you whirl and whirl, and you become a whirlpool -- all boundaries, all divisions are lost. You don't even know where your body ends and where the existence begins. You melt into existence and the existence melts into you; there is an overlapping of boundaries. And if you are really dancing -- not managing it but allowing it to manage you, allowing it to possess you -- if you are possessed by dance, thinking stops.The same happens with laughter. If you are possessed by laughter, thinking stops. And if you know a few moments of no-mind, those glimpses will promise you many more rewards that are going to come. You just have to become more and more of the sort, of the quality, of no-mind. More and more, thinking has to be dropped.Laughter can be a beautiful introduction to a non-thinking state. And the beauty is.... There are methods -- for example, you can concentrate on a flame or on a black dot, or you can concentrate on a mantra, but the greater possibility is that by the time the mind is disappearing you will start feeling sleepy, you will fall asleep. Because before the mind disappears there open two alternatives: sleep -- sushupti -- and samadhi: sleep and satori.
In a few Zen monasteries, every monk has to start his morning with laughter, and has to end his night with laughter -- the first thing and the last thing! You try it. It is very beautiful. It will look a little crazy -- mm? -- because so many serious people are all around. They will not understand. If you are happy, they always ask why. The question is foolish! If you are sad, they never ask why. They take it for granted -- if you are sad, it's okay. Everybody is sad. What is new in it? Even if you want to tell them, they are not interested because they know all about it, they themselves are sad. So what is the point of telling a long story? -- cut it short!But if you are laughing for no reason, then they become alert -- something has gone wrong. This man seems to be a little crazy because only crazy people enjoy laughter; only in madhouses will you find crazy people laughing. This is unfortunate, but this is so.
Laughter is prayer. If you can laugh you have learnt how to pray. Don't be serious; a serious person can never be religious. Only a person who can laugh, not only at others but at himself also, can be religious. A person who can laugh absolutely, who sees the whole ridiculousness and the whole game of life, becomes enlightened in that laughter.
It is said that when Hotei attained enlightenment he started laughing. He lived at least thirty years afterwards; he continued laughing for thirty years. Even in sleep his disciples would hear him giggling. His whole message to the world was laughter; he would go from one town to another just laughing. He would stand in one marketplace, then in another, just laughing, and people would gather. His laughter had something of the beyond -- a Buddha's laughter. He is known in Japan as 'the laughing Buddha'.His laughter was so contagious that whosoever heard it would start laughing. Soon the whole marketplace would be laughing; crowds would gather and laugh and they would ask him, "Just give us a few instructions." He would say, "Nothing more, this is enough. If you can laugh, if you can laugh totally, it is meditation." Laughter was his device. It is said many people became enlightened through Hotei's laughter. That was his only meditation: to laugh and help people laugh.
Laughter is one of the things most repressed by society all over the world, in all the ages. Society wants you to be serious. Parents want their children to be serious, teachers want their students to be serious, the bosses want their servants to be serious, the commanders want their armies to be serious. Seriousness is required of everybody. Laughter is dangerous and rebellious.When the teacher is teaching you and you start laughing, it will be taken as an insult. Your parents are saying something to you and you start laughing -- it will be taken as an insult. Seriousness is thought to be honor, respect. Naturally laughter has been repressed so much that even though life all around is hilarious, nobody is laughing. If your laughter is freed from its chains, from its bondage, you will be surprised -- on each step there is something hilarious happening.Life is not serious. Only graveyards are serious, death is serious. Life is love, life is laughter, life is dance, song. But we will have to give life a new orientation. The past has crippled life very badly, it has made you almost laughter blind, just like there are people who are colorblind.

8 comments:

Unknown said...

hmmm... doesn look like as if u're a kid because u've taken da topic of "laughter" so "seriously" :) :)...good 2 see ur blog, have always taken some lessons from ur words, the way u describe life and living it...
frankly speaking, cudnt understand much... but i realised whn i actually tried laughing n thinking together... it didn go together at all !!! strange, u've marveled the art of living life so well at this age wht we didn yet notice abt :)
eagerly waiting 4 ur next one... all da best ;)

Manjusha said...

Superb rahul ji...many persons will comment on ur post..some will like, others may not..but i appreciate whatever you've written...i hope pple understand and respect the message u tried to convey..
keep going..


Jhullika..
waiting for ur next post ;)

Rahul said...

@deepak bhai..thanks bro!!laughing is the highest state of meditation...religions have made us blind!!

all of us are divine.we are just not aware of it.

Love u bro!! :D

abhinav k jha said...

"Life is love, life is laughter, life is dance, song."
What deep thoughts!!!..you summed up life in just four beautiful words..love,laugh,dance and song...and i remember these states & readily relate to these....

it is just amazing to see such a long post from someone so new to this blogging thing....gud work dude...carry on the marvel u have started... :)

Rahul said...

@jhullika..I know many will like and others may not..But this is itself the biggest secret..everyone is so different and so divine..Can u imagine staying in a world where everyone eats the same food,speaks the same language,talks about similar things and share the same views??HECK NO!! :-)..admire the greatness in everyone and you will see all your hatered fading away into the rising bright colours of your awareness..Om Shanti!!

Rahul said...

@Abhinav bhai.,thank you for your encouragement bro.Yeah that is what life is all about,isn't it?I believe the biggest culprit behind all the misery is Education and Relegion.They have made us blind.Both are limited.Creativity has no boundaries.Love has no boundaries.Awareness has no boundaries.And when you have tasted these divine nectars,then I will say that you have achieved the higest post,highest status and highest education in the universe.

Arpan Jha said...

I need to laugh first to comment...let me laugh properly n wait for my next comment..hehehahaha.. :D ;)

Rahul said...

Yeah didi.that is so typical of you.u just cant imagine me telling all this..love u.. B-)