All of you want to be loved.For generations you have been trying to understand love.You find love,you loose love.But is it really love?
You simply see a beautiful body,you simply see beautiful eyes,you simply see beautiful hair and you say "Oh my God,I'm in Love!".But this is not going to last,because after seeing the same face for 24 hours,what is going to happen?You will get bored.The same body.....you have explored the whole topography,you have explored the whole geography again and again.You feel like an idiot.What is the point?The affair is failing,it has already failed.The reason is that we don't know how to wait so that love can happen.
I'm not against sex,I'm for love.Sex is the lowest form of love,God is the highest form of love.In the east people marry to receive love.If love becomes your marriage it is good,but don't expect marriage to bring love.That is not possible.Love can become a marriage.You have to work very consciously to transform love into marriage.Love needs great awareness.West is loosing love through sex.It is easily available.They are too young and childish.You don't have to go deep to discover love.Just enjoy sex and be finished.Through sex west is missing love,through marriage east is missing love.
There is a tremendous desire and longing for love.You need not be an eastern or western to discover love.Love is neither eastern nor western.It is within you.Explore it as deeply as possible.Go on discovering love within you.Love yourself first and very soon a loving heart will come to you,love will happen to you.
But if you are loving for sex,you will not find love;if you are jealous,you will not find love.Love + Attachment = Lust. YES! .Attachment can never be love.This attachment is the cause of all misery.People destroy their love,People do everything to destroy it,and the they think "What went wrong?".This attachment brings possessiveness,jealousy,anger,sadness and all the bad feelings.It makes you dependent.It makes you weak.
Learn how to be a detached lover.Love and love as deeply as possible.Love should be an intimacy,so that it becomes unbreakable.Let it become divine.Let it overflow.It will then become a honeymoon that never ends.
Om Shanti!!
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Spirituality is not bhakti(worshipping) or fighting in the name of relegion,rather it is experimenting and trying to know who your are and what you are here for.It is the method of connecting your mind with that of supreme soul.Its all about loosing yourself into the service of others.Its all about living a disciplined life cemented with postive thinking,love,inner peace,inner strength and good thoughts.Fell free to express your views. Best and Divine Regards, Rahul Jha
6 comments:
LOVE....Once more, spellbound by ur post..u write exactly what people keep on ignoring..love for thyself..well, i definitely learnt something out of ur writings..
KID Learning to grow up..lol :D
Waiting for further posts...
people will start analyzing their life/love-life after reading this... 4 sure :)...but honestly speaking i expected much more than u've put in...
u've explained "wht's not love" in detail but "wht's love" in brief... may be it's difficult 2 describe as some people say it's a feeling dat can only be felt but cant be defined and also it varies 4m individual's perspective :)
if u ask me, love doesn have any boundary... any condition... any stopping... i'm always in love with her though she hates me the most in this world... dats LOVE 4 me :)... there's no u-turn in way of love... by saying this i dont mean the end-result as there is no end at all, the name of the relationship might change by action but love remains the same always... and i'm happy coz i love her :) :)
i dnt know..it seems as if the post has been written in a haste..nd i dont agree with certain facts of urs...how east looses love thru marriage ..i dnt understand...sir..if we keep waiting fr that perfect love to happen..we will miss lots of things in between and may be that love may not turn up at all..
if people wud have been detached lovers...societies wud have fragmented...
love urself..that is where i agree with u..
to be true i was a bit disapointed becoz u have set high standards fr urself....
@Deepak bhai..Analyzing love?Can u ever analyze the scent of a flower?No bhai!It has to be felt,It has to be enjoyed,it has to be dicovered within oneself.I just wanted all of you to know the misconceptions that are rooted in your subconcious.Just avoid these mistakes,reprogram your subconsious and you will see love happening to you.
And you are actually making a fool of yourself.You yourself said that love has no boundaries,but relationships have boundaries.Then how can you manage to squeeze love into relationships???Let love become a relationship.
@abhinav.."PERFECT"??Perfect love??Love is naturally perfect.Please tell me,what perfection do u want too see in a flower,in a river,in a tree??These are natural things brother.God has made them perfect.As I have said,You have to feel it.You don't have to be lucky and wait.The problem is that you don't want to wait,actually all of you are in a haste.U just think,"Jaisa milega,ussi se kaam chala lenge".and you know what,You will never find love,It dosen't mean that you will not find some companion,certainly you will.But its just that you will never find true love,you will never have satisfaction.Love dosen't happen after getting into relationships,love itself has to become a relationship.Mariges are only institutions protected by law.Only slaves stay in instituions.Love dosen't need laws,priests or policemen.It needs a complete understanding,a great awareness.
I'm only asking you to start experiencing it within yourself.Thats it!Detatched love dosen't mean that you don't care about your love.It sim;ply means that you never expect anything in return for your love.And sir..if detatched love really starts happening then it will be as if the golden age has returned. :-)
forgive the spelling mistakes brother..was talking home and typing at the same time.. :)
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